To love entails risks that per moments we did not wish to live. To commit itself in a relation in pair takes some situations and circumstances that we do not see or we do not want recognize, mainly, when we felt very, very enamored. The first risk is the one of the lack of affection: That it can be lived by anyone on the members of the pair. It is experimented like abandonment. My pair no longer watches to me, no longer looks for to me, no longer I interest to him. Or, my pair no longer interests, gives equal me to me which happens to him, no longer it attracts to me, or simply, I do not have interest in or she.
When the lack of affection appears in a relation in pair, generally, it happens in some of the members of the pair, but far from to confront it, we tried to seduce, to try to show to us interested, but the pain the acceptance is too great. Per moments, we create, we thought, that possibilities always exist of reviving the love. But against the lack of affection, really few possibilities of a new approach exist very. The second risk is the infidelity: All that we have lived a relation in pair we are exposed to the ups and downs of infidelity. It does not have of another one, the fidelity or infidelity is a personal question. Nothing has to do with the pair. Nevertheless, we can undergo it and experience it in own meat. Each pair in the individual, will know yes wishes it to happen of length, to pardon it, or, to encounter again the course of the same. Generally the acts of infidelity, are parteagas of the life in pair. Or we left ourselves, or we followed with new rules in the relation, or, become the perfect pretext for the rupture.